Letting me know enough-is-enough is the only sure fire way.įinally, show these people love.
#Negative nancy positive patty how to
Sometimes I don’t know how to stop, I just keep going.
The other way is threaten to leave them if they don’t stop. Just confront the person and tell them they are being an asshole, it’s what I am doing, I am an asshole and I hate things. I wouldn’t suggest running away from people with these strong personality traits, that just makes me more angry, more loud, more confused. I find it terribly annoying post suicidal when I realize that I am doing it since no one wants to be around me and my cynical behavior is so strong even I don’t. But maybe I can find a way to get away from these kinds of people. It’s tough because I don’t even know how to bring it up sometimes. Yeah, I deal with these people and what sucks is that these people sometimes don’t even know that they’re being so negative. Pessimistic Patty will constantly remind you that everything is downhill when things get worse. There is no reason to believe in a good thing. It’s just the negative things that surround you. This Pessimistic Patty doesn’t look at the bright side of life. Even if you do find a way to make something happen, all it will end up is becoming a waste of time and you’ll end up failing.”
“Maybe we can figure out a way to get out of this situation,” you would say. They will figure out a way to tell you that hope is not there. All this person does is find a way to discourage your bright ideas. Pessimistic Patty: Optimism is not in Patty’s vocabulary. And the only reason why I mention this is because I do know a person that does that to me all the time. They don’t make you feel good about anything. This person will continue to make you feel like you can’t accomplish anything. Instead, they find every kind of fault in what you do.Įven though you were told to do a task and you do it correctly, a Negative Nancy will tell you that you did it wrong. A Negative Nancy doesn’t say any words of encouragement. They have no faith in your work and also continue to hold you down. Negative Nancy: This kind of person shoots down every idea you have. Don’t invite Debbie Downers to your party! All this Debbie Downer does is just kill the fun. Instead they decide to tell you their opinion of something that has nothing to do with it. When you have good news, they’re the only person that doesn’t congratulate you. Out of all the responses, they are the only one that just dampens everything. It’s some kind of nonsense where they will say something that totally kills the excitement and worst of all, they express some kind of opinion that nobody cares about. “I don’t care about Jay-Z… what I am more concerned about is the environmental damage the preparation of the concert will do to the environment.” You’re super excited and then Debbie Downer says something really negative. You come home with a pair of tickets to a concert you want to go to. They’ll say something that just ruins the entire atmosphere for you and your friends. They are the kind of person that says one thing that ruins the joyful mood in the room. Here are the three types of people that I have encountered that are no good people in my life.ĭebbie Downer: You know a Debbie Downer when you meet one. These are the people that are so entrenched in the bad things that there isn’t any room for the good things to grow. These are the people that don’t know how to have fun. These are the people that suck the life out of the good things out there. There are three people that I have encountered in my life that I shouldn’t be dealing with.
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